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During these two years of wardrobe editing, I realized there were several "layers" of style. There is your global style (or styles), that inspires you, that you can define by its caracteristics and recurring elements. Then, there are the details. Personal, subtle, details that make the difference between a purchase mistake and an all time favourite.
I started figuring these details out quite recently myself actually, maybe one year ago at most. As I am not a big fashion lover, I didn't pay much attention at first. That is, until I decided to figure out the reason of my purchase mistakes to avoid them in the future.
I covered most circumstantial reasons in the dedicated post, but sometimes, I buy something that fits the list, ticks all my boxes, and was carefully planned. But after a few months of (not) wearing it I realize this wasn't the right one. Why? That's where the Details come in play.
I think it's a sort of "step 2" of style searching. Once the big picture is clear, it is time to focus on the little things: colour shades, sleeve length, feel of the fabric...
- What do these details change?
In my case, it changed a fundamental element of my outfits: I now feel comfortable wearing my clothes. Not only are they actually more comfortable to wear, but I feel better in them, less self conscious, more myself, more at ease. "Bien dans mes baskets" as we say in French.
To be honest, I don't know which one is the cause and which is the consequence between my style changes and my feeling better in my life in general. But I know figuring out these details helped me find clothes that feel right. And I know that my latest purchase mistakes were outfits that did not meet these tiny details in cut, fit or colour.
- How to figure your details out?
There are many personal ways to figure out your own style details, your signatures. I have found one method that I apply quite often when I am about to buy something new.
You know what your favourites are, don't you? These clothes that you reach to when you have no time to dress in the morning, when you feel slightly depressed and want to feel good in your clothes today. These clothes that are the first in the laundry basket, and the first ones to be worn when all is clean and ironed. The clothes you wear when you meet someone important, the ones you pack when you travel.
Once you've gathered your favourites, there are two ways to go about it: by garment type or by outfit.
By garment type: you take your favourite, say, tops, and you try them on one by one. Then you try on the other tops, that you like but are not favourites. Do you notice any differences, even tiny? Are they more draped, or fit to the body? Are the colours brighter? Are they slightly longer, or shorter? Is the fabric slightly different?
By outfit: you wear your favourite outfits, combinations of your favourite clothes, and then you wear another outfit, that you like but is not a favourite. And you do the same: do you notice any similarity between two favourites? Any tiny differences with the regular outfits?
Finally, when you have pointed out a few details, you try your theory out. Go try some new clothes in your favourite store that have these details: do you like them? Do they feel right?
- To summarize...
Here are the steps of this method I used to find out some of my details:
- Gather your all-time favourite garments
- Try them on, separately or via favourite outfits
- Then try on regular garments/outfits, and point out tiny recurring differences
- Go to a store and try new garments matching these differences you've noticed
- If these new garments feel great to wear, you've nailed a detail!
It might sound a bit abstract, sorry about that, after all I'm no stylist or relooking professional. I'm just trying to share what I found out in my own style searching process. If it can help making things more concrete, here is a short list of some details of mine:
- Tops should be slightly draped, but not loose
- The perfect top length is about mid-hip, to be able to tuck them in, but to also avoid hiding my butt completely
- Avoid loose top with loose pants/shorts - the rule is: if one is draped, the other needs to be fitted.
- Cold colours should be paired with a warm colour
- Bags should be satchel-shaped, that can be worn on the shoulder, across body (more on bags in another post)
My objective now is not to replace all my clothes with favourites, but to make sure that my future purchases are all favourites. I hope this helps! Don't hesitate to leave a comment if I'm being confusing on unclear... Did you notice any details that make a difference in your outfits?

I agree with this process - it sounds time consuming and maybe just a little silly but I'm always struck when I look at a mistake and wonder how I never noticed it had a detail that didn't suit me in the first place. If we expend a little time paying more attention we would make less costly mistakes.
ReplyDeleteOne thing I noticed about myself is that I hate darts in my shirts along the torso. Although fitted styles have their advantages (the shirts stay tucked better!) I realise I just dislike the way they look on me and I feel like it throws the whole look off.
Yes that happens to me too: looking at a purchase mistake and wonder how I didn't see it when I tried it on! I think maybe a lot of details are unconcious, until we actually figure it out.
DeleteFitted vs more loose is definitely a thing isn't it? In my case, sometimes I just need to size up to like a top I otherwise found weird in my regular size...
I noticed some of these details a few years back, things like, I don't like wearing fitted tops, so I have stopped buying them, same for extremely fitted dresses. It helped a lot except I just seemed to be buying in excess anyway, so that didn't really get me anywhere. I'd love to have an entire wardrobe full of my favourites - hopefully I'm close!
ReplyDeleteHaha I also dream of having a wardrobe full of favourites. That was kind of the objective of wardrobe editing in the first place. I hope you're getting close too ;)
DeleteOne detail I especially focused on last year were pant shapes. For me, a full length, loosely tapered, “carrot” shape preferably with slant pockets suits me best. So I'd buy pants that fit me in the waist with the ideal pockets and length, and have my tailor re-cut the rest. (It helped that I had a pair she could base the measurements off) The extra expense is worth it, because it’s hard for me to find pants that fit me. Plus I think it’s better to spend a little more to get exactly what I want/need than waste it on something that was never quite right to begin with (that I will want to replace.)
ReplyDeleteButton placement on shirts is another peeve of mine. I hate when the 2nd button unbuttoned is too low, and buttoned it is too high.
I need to be more conscious of necklines when shopping. Because it will look one way in the mirror, but it is another story after several hours of wear.
Ah I'd love to have clothes tailored to my body. I guess that's the best way to get exactly what you want. I haven't found a skilled seamstress around though. But I can imagine it makes things much easier!
DeleteI hear you about shirts. I really find it difficult to find one that fits right. There's the fit, the fabric, the button size and placement, the length... I guess that's going to be my 2013 experiment, shirts are the only area of my closet I haven't been able to rebuild yet.
i love how methodological you are in your approach. it makes so much sense! i think the problem with a lot of people's wardrobe is that they don't spend enough time thinking about the details. they focus too much on the "big" picture than they overlook details. i wish i could print this out and distribute to everybody!
ReplyDeleteHaha thanks! I always wonder if I'm clear when I explain these things, so I'm happy that you like it. It is true that sometimes, one tiny detail makes a huge difference in the overall feel of the outfit...
DeleteThis is great -- my "detail" is not to have any details at all! I think I mostly suit unembellished clothing, non-patterned clothing so I stick to that. I also for the life of me cannot wear blazers without looking like I'm 65 so I avoid that.
ReplyDeleteI understand what you mean, I tend to gravitate toward very simple outfits too, and good basics without fuss are really quite hard to find...
DeleteI've been doing a similar exercise with my clothing, trying to find a pattern within my favorites and I still can't conclude anything very consistent, well 'blue' seems to be my fav colour, or more like my "basic" colour and that my fav clothes seem to have a sort of detail that is not too noticeable nor too trendy but that I like. Perhaps I should try these steps when I have some spare time and I'm in the mood.
ReplyDeleteI concur with your rule of one draped and the other loose, I think it works best for me.
Nice post!
Thanks! I can imagine it's not always easy to find your details. It sounds like I found them easily in this post but it really took me months/years and many purchase mistakes to figure them out one after the other.
DeleteI hope when you have time to try this, you will also point some personal details out :)
i love this post! (and just discovered your lovely blog via Amanda!)
ReplyDeletemy details would likely be my accessories and shoes...i'm finding that i stick to a pretty consistent uniform of favorites and switch things up with a bag or slightly unexpected jewelry :)
Thank you! I'm glad you like it. I see what you mean about accessories/shoes, sometimes a simple outfit can be transformed by a statement necklace or a different pair of shoes...
DeleteA wardrobe of carefully selected favorites is what I strive for. I think it makes getting dressed one of life's little pleasures.
ReplyDeleteDetails are very interesting. I think the more you look at clothing and construction the more you see. Personally, I'm very meticulous when it comes to noticing the subtile details that make each piece unique... The simpler and more basic items become the more I notice every element.
I agree, having a consistent and nicely curated wardrobe makes the outfit picking a little joy of the morning. I think it's part of my morning energizing ritual, actually.
DeleteAnd the more simple the piece is, the more important little details are. That's why I find basic shopping to be harder than it sounds...